Tuesday, November 24, 2015

DOES WATCHING PORN MATERIALS MAKE MEN TO CHEAT ON THEIR PARTNERS???



Does watching porn materials make men to cheat on their partners? Since immemorial the world have been under revolution with internet being consumed at all level of life from development and modernization of technology. Let’s talk about what the internet has provided to the users across. The core root of our discussion emanates from the internet, does watching pornography make men to cheat on their partners? Before I pen down what I found out about this topic, what do you think of this debatable topic of watching porn and cheating in relationships. How are the two connected? Hold your thoughts for a while as I explicit and exhaust my thoughts here. After watching porn products, an individual develops desires which were not thought before, watching the scenes and what follows is the path that determines the cheating. The person will look for ways of satisfying him/herself. One major cause of men possibly cheating on their partners is when they are constantly exposed to naked women with fake or real boobs, and pretty face not forgetting different crazy positions of having sex. This is a profession, those men and women in the scenes take drugs and end up manipulating the natural sexual intercourse that love must be part of it. Watching too much porn scenes will manipulate the idea of having the right partner and since he has been watching these products, the man will not what he saw in the internet leading to cheating on his partner. According to study authored by A Marlea Gwinn, of the University of Central Florida, porn offers men access to no-strings-attached sex, often with multiple highly attractive partners. Although most men believe it is make-believe staffs but it reinforces idea that there are many other attractive partners behind his. What expert has to say? Sexologist and Consultant Dr. Dhanajay Gambhire, “Watching porn may increase your courage to take one more step and cheat, and have also observed that watching porn is more common in men who cheat or visit prostitutes.” Watching porn makes men to be unfaithful to their partners especially when the pornographic movies is about cheating with a teacher, neighbor e.t.c and this will inculcate the idea that cheating is normal. Research found out that the more men watch porn, the more he will abstain from his partner and this is related to previous study that men who cheat more than 3 times are likely to watch porn regularly. Watching porn has been associated with men seeing other pretty women with big breast ready to indulge in all forms of sex positions and in those products there is no love or feelings for that matter. Familiarity brings content and the man at long last will take it normal for people to cheat and have as many sexual partners as possible to satisfy sexual needs. In this discussion the majority voice is that men who often watch porn are likely to cheat on their partners and the worst is addiction which affects the sexual relation of couples and many women complain of their husbands masturbating too much and failing to satisfy them. Many relations have dropped due to issue of cheating which the porn is behind it all. Having said all these, let’s go the final word of how watching porn can be avoided and protect many relationships from falling the marriage ladder. Abstain. Take your own decision and after trying hard you can possibly stop it. The best way is to challenge yourself by having target for instance, can you go on for 1 week without watching then extend to months, before knowing you have succeeded in doing to. Reward yourself at the same level gives the body motivation. Eliminate anything that may ease your access to pornographic products like watching porn videos, looking at naked pictures of woman etc. For the case of computers there are software that you can purchase which blocks specific sites and you will not access such porn products. Get other things to do when you are free by creating other hobbies like reading, writing going with family and friends to make yourself busy. Try to have busy schedule, you won’t get time to remember watching it. Most importantly if you are married why don’t you talk to your partner and discuss everything without hiding anything? Relationship is all about trust and being honesty is the core of good foundation of love.

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